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Things that are true

I love you, I enjoy living with you, you’re a good friend

I will miss you when you leave

I want to show you this but I’m afraid

I don’t want sex to be an issue

I don’t want sex to be part of our relationship

Why? All the reasons I’ve said before (email – no subject)

You don’t reassure me, my ego’s not strong enough

You deserve to be with someone you want to make love to

I deserve to be with someone who wants to make love to me

Solution

Be “affectionate” roommates

Why not? I long for you. I would miss you touching me.

I still hang on to forever; I’m afraid for it to end.

I think if I could redefine our relationship I could be happy with what we have and not unhappy because its not what I wish it was.