My
feelings are the measure of whether the relationship is good for me
“Feelings” include the
quality and meaning of my life – and my work, my hopes…
I
want to feel good. I do not want to feel bad.
It
does not matter who’s right who’s wrong who’s whatever…
I have tried, have felt
passion… I try, I feel
I
tried both because I wanted to and because you wanted.
Every
relation is subject to loss of spontaneity. The way back is through accepting
awkwardness.
The
“caring” feels good; also contributes to the relationship aura that is a must…
Moving
to this house is something I wanted but also a risk for both; if I had not
moved I would have avoided loveliness and conflict
I
have looked for local jobs – and like everything else this is sacrifice and
gain
We both try, feel … feel we
met rejection – we are paddling the same canoe … some is misunderstanding, some
us… what can be made good?
My
needs
I want my life to be good
everyday [I am not saying that all pain must be avoided]
I want to follow my path
into the wilderness
Common
needs
Need to be recognized vs.
ability to give: 2 [or other number] days a week rather than 2/7 of a day everyday
– also solves other problems.
Excitement is possible…
live separately[?]